Chandlers' Pride Candle and Calming Co.
GayDHD - Very Dramatic, Very Sparkly, Very Proud
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GayDHD - Very Dramatic. Very Sparkly. Very Proud.
The Snarky Collection - Chandlers Pride
There is a kind of night where you start getting ready at seven and somehow walk out the door at ten. You changed outfits four times, reorganized your jewelry, started two group chats, learned the history of the speakeasy on your phone, and then had to look for your keys. Again. But when you finally make your entrance in a feather boa and glitter eyeliner, nobody cares that you’re late. They’re just glad the party finally showed up.
GayDHD was made for that feeling.
It opens with bold juniper berry, juicy orange peel, and a spark of cinnamon, bright and bubbly, like the first sip of something illicit in a 1920s speakeasy. Black pepper, cardamom, and angelica spice up the heart, intoxicating and just a little bit dangerous, like a bootlegger doing jazz hands while starting six side quests at once. Wait, where were we? Oh, right. It’s dramatic without being messy and loud without losing its charm, a scent with no chill, no filter, and no apologies.
Underneath it all, vetiver, smoldering leather, and amber settle in warm and seductive, with a scandalously sweet whisper of cherry. Rich, bold, and irresistible. The kind of base that sparkles through the chaos and lingers long after you’ve forgotten what time it is.
This is the candle you light for the babes who out-talk their inner critic and throw glitter on every meltdown. Very dramatic. Very sparkly. Very proud. It’s neurospicy. It’s loud. It’s GayDHD.
Note Profile
Top: Juniper Berry, Orange Peel, Cinnamon
Heart: Black Pepper, Cardamom, Angelica
Base: Vetiver, Leather, Amber
Part of the Snarky Collection - for the moments that call for a little attitude.
Vegan · Cruelty-Free · Phthalate-Free · LGBTQ+ Owned · Poured with Pride
GayDHD - Very Dramatic. Very Sparkly. Very Proud. Smells Like
A glittery speakeasy, six open tabs, and absolutely no idea what time it is.
Candle Care & Safety Tips
Our coconut apricot wax is soft, creamy, and burns clean and slow. A little care helps every candle give you its best scent and longest life.
The first burn matters most
Let your candle burn until the melted wax reaches the edges of the jar, about 1 hour for every inch across. This sets the “memory” of the wax and prevents tunneling.
Trim before every light
Trim the wick to about ¼ inch before each burn. A shorter wick means a steady flame, less soot, and a cleaner jar.
Keep burns to 4 hours or less
Longer burns can cause the wick to mushroom and the jar to overheat. Let the candle cool completely before relighting.
Avoid drafts
Fans, open windows, and vents can cause uneven burning and flickering. A calm spot gives you the most even melt.
Know when to say goodbye
Stop burning when about ½ inch of wax remains at the bottom. Once cool and clean, the jar is ready to reuse.
Safety first
- Never leave a burning candle unattended.
- Keep away from children, pets, curtains, and anything flammable.
- Always burn on a stable, heat-safe surface.
- The jar can get hot. Do not touch or move it while lit or while the wax is melted.
- If the flame gets too high or starts smoking, extinguish it, let it cool, and trim the wick.
- Never use water to put out a candle. Use a snuffer or gently cover it.
Thank you for bringing a little Chandlers Pride glow into your space.
Scent Notes
Shipping and Returns
Every order is hand-poured and packed by us in small batches, so please allow 3 to 5 business days for processing. Orders ship via USPS unless you request another carrier at checkout.
During hot weather, we ship only on Mondays and Tuesdays. That way your candles spend less time sitting in a warm truck or warehouse over the weekend and arrive looking just as they did when they left our studio.
You’ll get a tracking number by email as soon as your order ships.
Local to St. Louis?
Choose local pickup at checkout or find us at a variety of farmers markets and craft shows around the region. Follow us on Instagram for market dates.
Arrived damaged?
We pack every order with care, but if something arrives broken, email us at chandlerspride@gmail.com within 7 days with a photo, and we’ll make it right with a replacement or refund.
Returns
Because candles and body care are personal-use items, we can’t accept returns on opened or burned products. Unused items in original condition may be returned within 14 days for store credit. Reach out and we’ll walk you through it.
