Chandlers' Pride Candle and Calming Co.
They Didn't Deserve You Candle
Couldn't load pickup availability
They Didn’t Deserve You
The Refresh Mood - Chandlers Pride
There is a moment when you finally decide you’re done. Done carrying the weight of yesterday, done making room for energy that drains you, done giving your light to people who never deserved it. You open the windows, clear off the shelves, and take a deep breath of air that finally feels like your own. The space feels lighter, and so do you.
They Didn’t Deserve You was made for that feeling.
It opens with earthy, Nag Champa-inspired incense, warm and smoky, curling up through the room like it’s clearing the air of everything that came before. Patchouli and sandalwood bring a deep, soulful warmth to the heart, steady and sure, the kind of strength that comes from knowing exactly what you’re worth. It’s grounding without being heavy and soulful without being somber, a scent that feels like reclaiming your peace.
Underneath it all, soft vanilla and skin musk settle in close and comforting. Warm, gentle, and quietly empowering. The kind of base that feels like finally exhaling, and remembering that the best things in life are still waiting for you.
This is the candle you light when you’re ready for a fresh start. When you want your space to feel clear, calm, and fully yours again.
Note Profile
Top: Incense
Heart: Patchouli, Sandalwood
Base: Soft Vanilla, Skin Musk
Part of the Refresh Mood Collection - for the moments that make everything feel new.
Vegan · Cruelty-Free · Phthalate-Free · LGBTQ+ Owned · Poured with Pride
They Didn’t Deserve You Smells Like
Open windows, a clear space, and a heart that’s finally yours again.
Candle Care & Safety Tips
Our coconut apricot wax is soft, creamy, and burns clean and slow. A little care helps every candle give you its best scent and longest life.
The first burn matters most
Let your candle burn until the melted wax reaches the edges of the jar, about 1 hour for every inch across. This sets the “memory” of the wax and prevents tunneling.
Trim before every light
Trim the wick to about ¼ inch before each burn. A shorter wick means a steady flame, less soot, and a cleaner jar.
Keep burns to 4 hours or less
Longer burns can cause the wick to mushroom and the jar to overheat. Let the candle cool completely before relighting.
Avoid drafts
Fans, open windows, and vents can cause uneven burning and flickering. A calm spot gives you the most even melt.
Know when to say goodbye
Stop burning when about ½ inch of wax remains at the bottom. Once cool and clean, the jar is ready to reuse.
Safety first
- Never leave a burning candle unattended.
- Keep away from children, pets, curtains, and anything flammable.
- Always burn on a stable, heat-safe surface.
- The jar can get hot. Do not touch or move it while lit or while the wax is melted.
- If the flame gets too high or starts smoking, extinguish it, let it cool, and trim the wick.
- Never use water to put out a candle. Use a snuffer or gently cover it.
Thank you for bringing a little Chandlers Pride glow into your space.
Scent Notes
Shipping and Returns
Every order is hand-poured and packed by us in small batches, so please allow 3 to 5 business days for processing. Orders ship via USPS unless you request another carrier at checkout.
During hot weather, we ship only on Mondays and Tuesdays. That way your candles spend less time sitting in a warm truck or warehouse over the weekend and arrive looking just as they did when they left our studio.
You’ll get a tracking number by email as soon as your order ships.
Local to St. Louis?
Choose local pickup at checkout or find us at a variety of farmers markets and craft shows around the region. Follow us on Instagram for market dates.
Arrived damaged?
We pack every order with care, but if something arrives broken, email us at chandlerspride@gmail.com within 7 days with a photo, and we’ll make it right with a replacement or refund.
Returns
Because candles and body care are personal-use items, we can’t accept returns on opened or burned products. Unused items in original condition may be returned within 14 days for store credit. Reach out and we’ll walk you through it.
